I'm Shocked
by
Gerald Kein
I recently returned from the NHG conference in
Massachusetts. It was great to see old
friends and meet many new people I have only known on Facebook. While there I taught several classes but I
just have to relate to you an experience I had one of my training programs
about Abreaction Control.
My normal training programs that I teach at the Omni
Hypnosis Training Center we spend quite a bit of time discussing abreaction's
and how to control them. The types of
abreaction's and how to control them have changed dramatically since the 1950s
or at least I thought they had. Back in
the 40s and 50s Harry Arrons wrote in his book "The New Master Course of
Hypnotism" that if somebody started to abreaction during an induction
generally they started rolling their head and moving her legs back and
forth. When this happened you were told
to stand behind the individual physically stop the rotation of his head and
emerge them. You are then told to
attempt to re-hypnotize the person and if you encountered the same situation
emerged in and then send them to a psychologist.
Today we know that given the same situation we have given a
marvelous opportunity to induce deep hypnosis and regression by simply tapping
them on the four head while saying "As I count from three back to one go
back to the first situation or event that caused these feelings." In just a few seconds we will find ourselves
at the event that cause the problem the person is in your office for. It may just be soft crying or rollaway to
the other extreme loud screaming and flailing of the arms or even more.
To the hypnotist that is well-trained in abreaction therapy
this is indeed a gift as it shortens the session dramatically. You can then do the transformational therapy
that should just take a few minutes and the client's problem is
eliminated. I know this may sound
simple but the reality is often it is very simple.
Many individuals don't realize that some traumatic events of
the past are kept from the knowledge of the subconscious mind. These are things like rape, combat or
extremely embarrassing situations. They
are kept repressed because if the subconscious had to dwell on them on a daily
basis the individual would be unable to go through their life normally. This can create a problem for the
hypnotist. It takes a tremendous amount
of energy by the inner mind to constantly repress this information from the
consciousness. If during the induction
the clients subconscious mind feels that the hypnotist is able to handle this
repressed situation it will reveal this long forgotten memory and an abreaction
will begin. This can be a very exciting
time for the hypnotist as it's totally unexpected and sometimes very violent. If the hypnotist doesn't know how to
instantly take care of the situation it can get rapidly out of control and
cause the client harm.
We all understand the four types of abreaction that can
present themselves but for review let's remember first, we have a directed
regression. That's when hypnotist purposely
regresses a person back to a known time and place. Second, the non-directed regression or the hypnotist simply says
go back to the first situation or event that caused the problem you're in the
office for. Third, the spontaneous
regression this is the one I talked about above when it comes on when you least
expect it. And last, the recreational
regression. This is generally any
regression that things like searching for past lives etc. Anyone of these regressions can be directly
to an either gentle or severe abreaction and all of us need to know how to
handle this situation.
The technique that I teach is very old and very simple. You simply say to the person the words "The scene fades and
you tend to your breathing."
Is extremely important for you to memorize these words as well as you
memorize your own name. They are the
golden words that will keep you out of trouble during any abreaction. During the more emotional abreaction's you
may have to say these words more than once.
After you say the words the abreaction will slowly go away over a period
of 30 to 90 seconds and you can then resume your session. I went to the exact technique of how to do
this in another article so this is just an overview. It is not the jest of this article
to teach abreaction therapy but to go over situation that
happened in my class.
In my class at the NGH while I was teaching this technique
of handling abreaction's I noticed two people in the front row of my class kind
of looking down at the floor and shaking her heads slowly. They looked up at me and said that's not
what I was taught in my training program.
Well in order to be politically correct I said well there are many ways
to stop in abreaction and I asked them how they were taught. They told me their instructor told them that
if in abreaction happened they should lean over the individual lift up their
eyelids and blow on their eyes.
Okay. You got it. This is why I was shocked! And I guess I look shocked and for the first
time in many classes I didn't know what the say for a few seconds.
I thought to myself this technique is right out of that old
Harry Arrons book we spoke about in paragraph two. I couldn't believe what I heard could you imagine you have a
client in your chair and all of a sudden a slip into a violent abreaction. There screaming at the top of their
lungs. Their arms are flailing in all
directions and you lean over (hopefully without getting hit by one of their
arms) lift their eyelids and blow on their eyes. I can't begin to count the ways how wrong this is. For example those of you who have studied
NLP realize you are creating an unbelievably strong negative anchor that will
affect the individual for the rest of his life. The permanent psychological harm you can cause a person to have
can affect them for the rest of their lives.
I thought we moved away from this kind of training back in the 60s but I
guess not.
When a client comes into our office they are trusting us to
take care of them, mentally and psychically.
To lift their eyelids and blow on the eyes in the middle of a violent
abreaction is a sign of abject lack of functional clinical training and whoever
is using and teaching this technique owes it not only to their clients but to
our entire profession to get retrained in this area. If we as professional hypnotists are unable to handle these type
of situations when they present themselves we probably should not be practicing
professionally until we become competent in handling these matters without
causing harm to the client.
Hi Gerald,
ReplyDeleteMany years ago when I started in the hypnotherapy profession I was fortunate to purchase some of your hypnotherapy training DVDS which have helped me to become the successful professional hypnotherapist that I have become today.
Learning how to deal with abreactions is a very important part of what we do especially when they are spontaneous and perhaps not associated with what we have been asked to help the client with.
In the many years that I have been practicing hypnosis I have on many occasions had to deal with abreactions both associated and not associated with the problem that the client has asked for help with.
"With the correct training they are very easy to deal with and can help the client to release the repressed issue".
With regards to touching a client during an abreaction its definitely something that should never be done. Even if a hypnotherapist does nothing the abreaction will eventually pass anyway and the client will exit hypnosis naturally. A very important thing for therapists to remember is that they should only deal with what they have been asked to help the client with.
If a spontaneous abreaction occurs during a hypnotherapy session which is not associated with what a therapist has been asked to help with, under no circumstances (unless previously agreed with the client) should the therapist then proceed to deal with the issue,